As we move into the New Year and look back at the old one thing we usually strive for is to see who has hurt us and whether we can forgive them and move on. The flip side of this is that we usually only forgive those who we have contact with. Those we do not see to often we just tend to forget and never worry about whether we will forgive them or not. If we truly want to forgive people than we have to dig through alot and find alot of people to ask for and to give forgiveness to. Of course this is a two way street and they have to want to be forgiven or forgive you to make it work.